Missing You Already: What To Do When You Can’t Bear To Be Apart
When you’re in a relationship, sometimes the physical distance can feel unbearable. No matter how strong your bond is, being separated from the one you love can leave you feeling heartbroken and alone. But there are things you can do to make the separation a little bit easier. Here are some ideas for how to cope with missing your partner when you’re apart.
1. Connect often
Technology can make it easy to keep in touch. Find a few times each week to connect over video, a phone call, or even texting. Talking to your partner is a great way to remind yourself why you miss them. It can also make the distance feel a little bit smaller.
2. Make Plans for Reuniting
Start planning for when you’ll be together again. It doesn’t matter if it’s days or months away — having something to look forward to can give you something to focus on and help make the time apart go faster.
3. Write Letters or Cards
There’s nothing like the old-fashioned way of showing you care — write your partner a letter or card. Even though they may be far away, a heartfelt, written expression of your feelings will be a treasured keepsake when you’re reunited.
4. Find Ways to Bond Virtually
If your partner is across the world or just across the country, look for creative ways to still spend time together, such as virtual movie or game nights. Doing something together — even when you’re miles apart — can help keep you close and provide an extra boost of companionship.
5. Think of New Ways to Connect
Don’t be afraid to think outside the box. From virtual painting lessons to matching pajama sets, explore new ways to show your love and to bring a smile to your partner’s face.
6. Enjoy Time Apart
Remember, the time apart doesn’t have to be sad. Look for ways to fill the time you’d normally be spending with your partner with fun activities. From volunteering to exploring new hobbies, find things that make you happy and get you excited for the future.
Separation can be hard, but there are things you can do to cope with missing your partner when you’re apart. Find creative ways to keep the connection strong, and know that soon enough, you’ll be reunited and able to make up for lost time.