A Reflective Tale of Embracing the Shared Experience of Our Age

Every person goes through life with different perspectives and experiences, yet no matter our age, we can always connect to each other in some way. This has become particularly clear to me over the last few years as I’ve begun to get to know someone who is my age.

What began as a curious acquaintance, blossomed into a wonderful friendship that I have cherished for some time now. As I continue to share and connect with this individual, it becomes increasingly evident that we share much in common, as many people do. The older we grow, the more obvious the similarities become and it serves as an amazing reminder of how we all have commonalities, no matter what.

At the same age, we both find ourselves in unique positions with many opportunities that lie ahead. I’m grateful to have a companion with whom I can not only appreciate our age-related joys, but also feel comfortable sharing our mutual insecurities, hopes and dreams. There’s something truly remarkable in realizing how our thoughts and values can still align so closely. It’s comforting and reaffirming in equal measure.

No matter how young or old we may be, having a kindred spirit to share life’s joys and struggles can never be taken for granted. Whether we’re 14, 54 or 84, we are able to grow and relate to each other in the same way, a reminder of how the things that bring us together remain true regardless of our age.

Having found an individual with whom I share so many aspects of my life – from laughs, to mistakes, to excitement for the future – has been nothing short of remarkable. At this age, I have finally come to realize the impact of an amazing friendship, shared experience and universal truth that comes with embracing my age.